女心をつかむための3つの心理学

菊池
こんにちは、菊池です。

今回は切り口を変えて、女性の心理学的な落とし方というとんでもないテーマでお送りしたいと思います。

今回ご紹介するポイントは3つあります。

女心つかむ3つの心理学的なポイント
  1. ワンナイトラブできるかの見分け方
  2. 靴の並べ方で落としやすいか分かる
  3. 共感を示すのが一番大事

 

ワンナイトラブできるかの見分け方

まず1つ目なんですが、イギリスのリーズ大学という大学で行われた研究でちょっと面白い実験がありますので、そちらをご紹介します。

通常の人に比べると腰幅が広い女性、広くなればなるほど、一夜限りの愛ですね、ワンナイトラブとよく言われますけど、一夜限りの関係にも抵抗が少ないということが、心理的な抵抗が少ないということがわかっているんです。

なかなかとんでもない研究なんですが、詳細なデータを取って研究されたようなものなので、もしたとえばあなたが男性で、ワンナイトラブでちょっと遊びに行って落としたいな、という時に使える方法としては、その腰幅が広めの女性の方であればあるほど、落としやすいと、いうことがわかってるということです。

 

靴の並べ方で落としやすいか分かる

2つ目は心理学者の渋谷氏が提唱している方法なんですけど、靴についてです。

玄関に並べてある靴が、綺麗に並んでたりとか綺麗に収納されているって人は落としづらく、玄関に靴が散らかっている女性であればあるほど貞操観念が低くて、落としやすいということがわかっているそうです。

実際家に行って靴がどれぐらい散らかってるか確かめるわけにはいかないので、たとえば飲みの席とか、普通に合コンとかで話しているときに、

菊池
「ちょっと心理テストなんだけど」

自分の家の玄関を想像してもらって、靴は綺麗に収納されているか、それとも散らばってたりとかたくさん靴が出てるのかどっちって聞いてみることによって、どれぐらい落としやすいかというのがわかるわけです。

飲みなどの場では「心理テストです」と言っているので、いやそれは君落としやすいんだよ、って言うわけにはいかないので、別の表現で返してあげましょう。

例えば、

菊池
「靴が散らかってる人は実は、初対面の人もけっこう簡単に打ち解けられて、深い仲になるのが早いんだよ―、逆に靴が結構しっかり綺麗に並べてあったりとか収納されている人っていうのは警戒心が強くてなかなか心をオープンにしない人が多いらしいよ。」

といった具合でとどめておくと、心理テストをやることによって会話が盛り上がりつつも、相手がどれぐらい落としやすい女性なのかっていうことを見極めることができると、いう結構いい方法ではありますね。

 

共感を示すのが一番大事

これが一番大事なんですけど、よく渋谷とかでナンパしてる人いるじゃないですか。

ああいう人たちの言葉に耳を傾けていると結構面白くて、彼らの的中率は結構低いんですよ。

だからもう色んな人に声をかけてナンパで女性を落としてるように見えても、実はその何倍も何十倍も声をかけてたりするわけですよね。

確かにもし、あなたがたくさんの女性とそういう関係を持ちたいってなったらこの方法はありだとは思います。

でも多くの場合は、

「一人の人をどうすれば落とせるか。」

「自分がもう一生この人と一緒にいたい」

「素敵な女性を見つけた時にどうすれば落とせるか」

この技術を持っているかいないかが、一番重要な部分だと思います。

誰でも良いというわけではないはずです。

その場合一番大事なのは共感を示すことです。

これは男女の脳の違いが大きく出てくるんですね。

女性は、基本的に脳の構造が共感構造になっているので、どれぐらい相手の感情を読み取るか、相手の感情を読み取って自分との関係を深めていくかということがすごく重要になってきます。

だから例えば

女性がコミュニケーションをとるときとかはまず相手のことを褒めたりするんです。

女性への共感の示し方

「あーそのドレス素敵ですね」

「かわいいそれバッグだね」

など相手を褒めて、それから向こうも褒め返してくるわけです。

そうやって二人の仲が良くなっていくというか打ち解けていきます。

この方法を男性はほとんど取らないですね。

結構男性は自分中心の話をしてしまいがちなので、もしあなたが誰か女性がいてその人を落としたいんだったら、どうすれば相手に共感を示すことができるかと、こういうのを考えてみると、女性の心をつかみやすく、つまり落としやすくなるんじゃないかなと思います。

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